Sure, I really enjoy getting my ass jack hammered and copious amounts of my lover’s body fluids injected into my colon but deep anal penetration often doesn’t give the same G Spot experience the way direct manipulation does. Prostate Massage and Prostate Milking are really special and bring into my erotic play to a whole different level.
I expect that, when people read “Prostate Massage and Prostate Milking,” many people will be a bit confused. Most people think of Prostate Massage and Prostate Milking as being the same – and from a clinical standpoint, they are – but there are differences between the two when you use them for erotic play. With regards to erotic play, both techniques drain the prostate of its juices but one provides sexual pleasure while the other is concerned with orgasm control.
As you probably already know, the prostate is one of several glands in the male body involved with intercourse. The testicles produce sperm that mixes with fluids made by the prostate to produce cum – yummy, yummy cum. Since the prostate is so close to the rectum, it can be stimulated manually via the anus. Manually manipulating the prostate can cause it to release its fluid and when done correctly, can really affect your orgasm.
Massaging the prostate can be done to help bring about an intense, mind-blowing orgasm. This is why the prostate is often called the “Male G Spot.” One partner slips a finger or a toy up into the other partner’s anus to massage the prostate while also giving a hand job or a blow job. The combination of external and internal stimulation often results in stronger orgasms with more fluid ejaculated – a win-win for both partners! This approach to playing with the prostate usually is called “prostate massage.”
Like so many kinks, what turns me on isn’t always strictly physical. The emotional and/or psychological aspect of the kink is super important - and playing with my prostate is no different. “Prostate milking” is the term commonly used to refer to the erotic, non-orgasmic variant of prostate massage, especially between people who incorporate elements of orgasm control and/or chastity into their partnerships.
When done correctly, prostate milking can be used to drain the fluids from the prostate without triggering an orgasm. The act of draining one’s prostate while not orgasming can be an emotional experience. On the flip side, prostate milking can be used to trigger an orgasm without an erection. Orgasming from penetration only while you are flaccid can be life-altering. In either case, it is a tremendous mind fuck.
If you are a sissy like I am, there is a very special meaning to orgasming without having to get an erection. It can really do a job in your head about not being a real man. Some of my best orgasmic experiences have been when milked while being totally soft.
Then there is the whole D/s orgasm control aspect. This is not really orgasm denial as much as training the submissive to be able to orgasm in more than one way and under the control of the dominant but I'll have to write about this in a follow up post.
Like any skill, prostate milking is easy to try but takes a bit of practice to get good at. Since it involves sticking things inside one's body there are some risks involved so a certain amount of caution should be taken such as protective gloves, condoms, lube, etc. There are loads of pages on the Internet that give step by step instructions on prostate massage, these are mostly medically-oriented (see digital rectal exams). Only a few discuss the milking aspect to it in any great detail and hardly any do so with a sissy in mind. Unfortunately, there is quite a bit to be told, so I'll try to do so in follow up posts.
In the meantime, below is a t-gurl self-milker in chastity. Now this gurl knows how to milk! Yum!
Jennifer Milks Herself
If you can recommend a prostate play video or images, please send them along to me. You can either leave a comment with a link or send me an email as firstname.lastname@example.org.